Happy Thanksgiving 2013

This will be my third time hosting our family Thanksgiving and now that there is more space for us all in the new house, I feel like the torch has officially been passed. I step into some very big footsteps, as my mom’s Thanksgivings are that of legend. But with the help of all her beautiful decorations and a few secret recipes, I think I’ve started to find my footing. Here are my favorite tips for hosting a happy and stress-free Thanksgiving. I hope they help you get through the day, and if nothing else make you smile. I’m thankful for all of you and this pretty little spot of mine on the internet. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.

Whether it’s a pint of ice cream or a labor intensive mashed potatoes, you’ve got to delegate. Even the non-cooks can shop, and even if they’re picking up the smallest thing, every little bit helps. I always make sure to get to them early so they don’t have to stress and they’re always happy to do it. Helping out makes everyone feel like they’re a bigger part of the process.

Make the favorites, put out a few decorations and do what you can, not what you feel like you should do to impress. It’s about being with family, and it’s not as enjoyable to be together if the host is stressing the over-complicated. As Mike always says, “K.I.S.S.-keep it simple stupid”. Or in my case “sweetheart”.

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This one I learned the hard way. With all the cooking, cleaning and organizing that goes along with this holiday it’s easier to pull a Bardot-type updo versus the long wavy locks I usually like on a festive occasion. Spice it up with an autumn flower in your hair or some nice long earrings, but keep it tidy. You’ll be happy it’s out of your way and not in the gravy.

At some point in the day or night, get out of the kitchen and step outside. Take a deep breath of fresh air and be thankful for it. Have your guests join you or use it as a moment to get away.

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Even if they’re not that artistic, make sure to document the gathering. It’s hard to get all of the family together under the same roof, so take advantage and say “Turkey!”